Going to Church

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When I was a child, my family did not go to church.  They did not talk about God or have blessings before dinner.  There was no cross-stich above the mantle proclaiming how the love of Jesus will carry us.  There was Chistmas and Easter but they mostly involved food and an influx of extended family- how the holidays were associated with Jesus was a mystery.  I wanted badly to be a “church” family.  To dress up and sit quietly in a pew, while pretending to listen to a sermon was my idea of heaven, and would casually ask my church-going friends to tag along with them on Sundays.  There I would pretend to understand the rituals and wish I could walk the aisle and receive communion, so then I would be saved.  I grew and my desire to be saved never waned, but the pew sitting, quiet path to this divinity began to reveal itself as a conflict.

Now, as I sit in this holy area and look out on this stunningly understated land, I am feeling restless. Like being in Church, surrounded by stained glass and breathtaking idols, but still unable to tap dance on top of the incense table. The quiet has set in, the leaves have fallen, and I’m supposed to be preparing my family for a move to South America in two months.  I need church, badly.  The kind of religion that quells the need for affirmation of what is right and clears the mind.  The kind of godly intervention that comes from having a short attention span.

My restlessness is not from boredom or from being high strung.  It comes from an inability to be idle.  I find it hard to sit through meetings lasting more than 15 minutes, movies, lectures, plays, and worst of all, elementary school assemblies (don’t tell my children, of course I love recorder concerts).  All of these would be tolerable if I was able to move during them- put my feet up on the chair in front of me, stretch out, and take lots of chit-chat breaks.  I am uncomfortable with the stillness and stiff with the feeling of entrapment.  I know what your thinking, this woman needs a serious sitting meditation practice.  Embrace the stillness, quiet the mind, be in the moment.  I tried.  Just as I sat in the hard wooden pew focusing on looking extraordianarily pious, I would sit and breath and sit and breathe and sit, sit, sit to the point of almost exhaustion.   My body wanted to move and I felt cloudier the more I remained still.  I brought this up to a meditation teacher asking for guidance, and he told me “Why don’t you just move?” He suggested I take my meditation on a walk or maybe dancing.  The thought of dating my meditation practice sounded perfectly fitting and our first time out I knew it was love at first sight.  I walked and mantraed, while for the first time becoming peace and clarity.  The movement settled my mind and united the forces I needed.  I deepened the meditative quality of my yoga practice and began dancing with therapeutic abandon.  I ran in the woods as my feet pounded out a mantra. 

Yoga studios have become my temples, as well as the vast expanse of outdoors, and sometimes the pounding floor of a dance club.  I take communion in the breaths that go deep, deep down and prostrate my devotion with every downward dog.  My pennace would probably be the thursday night dharma mittra that leaves me sore for a whole week.  This is my church, this body and the movement I am grateful to create.

In this time of idleness, I feel the need for prayer.  I am still in a world of whirlwind revolution.  Awakening little by little, the people of this planet are ready to rally and my prayers go to a place of loving action.  I go to church and send my movements to you, to your children.  I send it out as a way to receive, a way to bring myself closer to this God that will still love me, even though I cannot sit too long.

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2 responses to “Going to Church

  1. OMG, you’ve swept me up once again with your elegance and essence – your insights and extraordinary ability to let the genuine sense of an experience flow into words on a screen. And though my screen is so far from yours, I read and feel the mingling of light. Ahhhh, the celebration in my heart over your dancing, pounding feet, firmly planted into the yoga mat, grounding you into the earth while you engage with the spirit. Dance, my friend, dance!

  2. Love it! Love you! Beautiful words and such a big, grounding, expanding idea. I think a lot of people go to yoga as a kind of church… me included. Sunday mornings… I’ll think of you then while I’m sweating it up and trying to balance on my head 🙂

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